Intro to Conflict Free Communication
How to stay self-respecting, influential, and emotionally steady in conversations where you’d normally shrink, over-accommodate, or get reactive.
Intro to Conflict-Free Communication
A grounded framework for speaking clearly, confidently, and with respect — even when it’s hard
Live class | 2 sessions (60 minutes each)
March 6 & 20, 2026 at 1-2 PM CST. Recordings available.
Many capable, thoughtful people struggle not because they don’t know what to say —
but because they lose access to themselves when the conversation actually matters.
You may recognize yourself if:
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You want to speak up more clearly and confidently
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You worry about upsetting others or damaging relationships
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You avoid or overthink difficult conversations
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You feel less steady or articulate in high-stakes discussions
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You want your voice to land with clarity, respect, and influence
This class is designed to help you stay grounded, self-respecting, and clear — so you can say what needs to be said without freezing, over-explaining, or getting reactive.
What this class is about
Conflict-Free Communication is a practical, repeatable framework for having meaningful conversations where emotions are present, stakes are high, and clarity matters.
You’ll learn how to:
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Prepare for conversations so emotions inform rather than drive them
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Identify a shared goal that reduces defensiveness and power struggles
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Speak honestly without blame, collapse, or escalation
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Stay steady and self-trusting when emotions or power dynamics are present
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Navigate difficult conversations without losing yourself or the relationship
This work applies to:
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Workplace conversations and leadership situations
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Giving or receiving feedback
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Navigating power dynamics
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Family and personal relationships
Class Format
This class is offered in two 60-minute live sessions, with space in between to reflect and apply the framework to a real conversation in your life.
Session 1:
Staying grounded before and during the conversation
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Why confidence disappears in high-stakes moments
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Emotions as information (not instructions)
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Pre-conversation preparation: shared goals, intention, emotional steadiness
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Introduction to the Conflict-Free Communication framework
Between sessions:
You’ll be invited to reflect on a real conversation you want to approach differently.
(No heavy homework. No pressure.)
Session 2:
Speaking clearly without escalation or self-betrayal
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Inviting the conversation with respect
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Stating facts (including emotional facts) with clarity
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Asking for perspective and negotiating outcomes
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Staying out of defend/blame mode when stakes are high
Who this class is for
This class is especially helpful if you:
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Are already capable and thoughtful, but feel less confident in difficult conversations
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Care deeply about relationships and impact
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Want to build influence without becoming harder or quieter
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Are ready to speak more clearly without self-betrayal
You don’t need to be “bad at communication” to benefit from this work.
You just need to want to stay yourself when it matters most.
What you’ll leave with
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A clear, practical communication framework you can return to again and again
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Greater confidence and steadiness in difficult conversations
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Language and structure you can apply immediately
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A stronger sense of self-trust under pressure
Continuing the work
If you’re looking for ongoing support and a place to practice these skills over time, the Community Gathering Place offers a steady, relational space to continue the work alongside others navigating similar challenges.

